Love is something that we are all in need of. Being loved as people say, is the best feeling in the world but being able to love for me is still have the same impact. Loving must be an ongoing, honest exchange of personal feelings with a significant person. Its is the process of offering concern, comfort and outward assistance for one’s aspirations. Love includes feeling for the other that goes beyond any selfishness on the part of the loved one. Love is being truthful and never involves deception.
However, some people failed to understand that love is not about being manipulative to your partner but being as supportive as possible to him or her. Love is not a mark of manipulation but of appreciation no matter how hard it is to understand your other half.
Love is something that we are all in need of. Being loved as people say, is the best feeling in the world but being able to love for me is still have the same impact. Loving must be an ongoing, honest exchange of personal feelings with a significant person. Its is the process of offering concern, comfort and outward assistance for one’s aspirations. Love includes feeling for the other that goes beyond any selfishness on the part of the loved one. Love is being truthful and never involves deception.
One of the ways to be able to understand your separated entity is through one's love language. This may help you to know what kind of love he or she is looking forward for you to show him or her. And by the time that you will be aware to discover this, this may be able to let you have a contented happy life with each other.
One of the ways to be able to understand your separated entity is through one's love language. This may help you to know what kind of love he or she is looking forward for you to show him or her. And by the time that you will be aware to discover this, this may be able to let you have a contented happy life with each other.
I am very lucky I was able to know and understand these languages as young as possible. I know this will help me appreciate love more and as well as how other people show their love. As for the results of my love language test, I got the love language 'Acts of Service' as the highest among all the love languages.
I could not agree more than this result because I know I am a person that is really captive by people who helps me in any way that they can. Cite for example, someone offers me a chair or someone randomly picks up the pen for me, these moments made me smile and appreciate the person that made it for me. I am just the kind of person that feels so much happiness when someone tells me "Let me do that for you" ("Ako na ana Ve bi") because this makes me think that at least someone in my life is willing to do things for me to help me in my struggles. Although these times was able to made me feel loved by others, this does not mean that I am into them, it is just that I really appreciate what they have done.
I am very lucky I was able to know and understand these languages as young as possible. I know this will help me appreciate love more and as well as how other people show their love. As for the results of my love language test, I got the love language 'Acts of Service' as the highest among all the love languages.
I could not agree more than this result because I know I am a person that is really captive by people who helps me in any way that they can. Cite for example, someone offers me a chair or someone randomly picks up the pen for me, these moments made me smile and appreciate the person that made it for me. I am just the kind of person that feels so much happiness when someone tells me "Let me do that for you" ("Ako na ana Ve bi") because this makes me think that at least someone in my life is willing to do things for me to help me in my struggles. Although these times was able to made me feel loved by others, this does not mean that I am into them, it is just that I really appreciate what they have done.
For me, loving should really be showed rather than being said alone. I need concrete evidences for me to tell that someone is really in love. I also believe in the saying that "Action speaks louder than words". Knowing that even someone is consistently saying all the affirming words that you are waiting, it is still and never be a guarantee that, that person really loves you or is true to his or her feelings. The person responsible for this feeling must prove himself, show the world how much he loves you not just some cliche lines.
Anyhow, for your own personal reminder: If acts of service are to be acts of love, they must be freely given. Again, we go back to the definition of love where is states that in any angles love should not have an expectation in return.
For those who are loving someone whose love language is 'acts of service' I would suggest to JUST CUT YOUR TALK AND DO SOMETHING. :)
Au Revoir, Social Psychology!!!
-Veronica Zynthia
